You're single--a heat-seeking bachelor, committed to no one inparticular, able to party like John Belushi and sleep until noon withno one underfoot to tell you to do otherwise. It's a great life, andwhy shouldn't it be?
1.You can take the time to find the right woman
One of our reasons for staying single is that you can afford to wait for your true soul mate (if one even exists) to pop into the picture.You can take the time to casually wade through the barracuda-infested waters of the dating pool and set your hook for the prize catch.
It's sad to say, but too many guys get hitched for the wrong reasons,like they've reached a certain age, all of their friends are getting married, and they haven't been successful at dating and this woman is the first to show interest.
2.You can focus on your career
Our No. 2 reason for staying single is that you can enjoy the opportunity of building your career without draining the tons of energya permanent relationship entails. You remain free to put in long hours,work on the weekends or do whatever else you have to do to besuccessful. This is especially true if you're working in any kind oftime-demanding field, such as medicine, law or entrepreneurship.
3.You can do what you want, when you want
When you're single, the world is your oyster. You can pick up and gonanywhere you want, do anything you want, any time you want. No one is in the background nagging at you to do chores, go shopping, or "growup."
You're absolutely free to hang out with your buddies, party until dawnand find plenty of time for your personal interests and hobbies. Bestof all, you have the luxury of being all by yourself, if you feel likeit.
4.You can enjoy a sexual smorgasbord
One of the best reasons for staying single is that you're not stuck with the same sex partner for the rest of your life. The dating universe is yours to conquer. You can happily sample all the different fare at the sexual buffet, and keep your taste buds primed for the next dish being served.
What's more, you never have to wrestle with sexual boredom or lack ofvariety (and you'll be the envy of all your married friends).
5.You can build wealth
Staying single means not being forced into buying a 10,000-megawat tdiamond ring (so your fiance can impress her friends with the huge price tag) or any of the other bloodsucking financial drains that marriage entails, for that matter.
By staying single, you're not legally or financially obligated toanyone but yourself. But once you John Hancock the dotted line on that marriage contract, she has you by the balls forever.
6.You can enjoy serenity
Another reason for staying single is that being alone means peace andquiet. When you don't live with a woman, you're not subjected to her never-ending mood swings and emotional storms, or her blaming you for every thing that she screws up in her life.
And, of course, no fights. As long as you keep her as a casual girlfriend and not a wife, if she gets too uppity you can simply walk away, free and clear.