雅思口语part3范文-某人给你道歉的经历

　　雅思口语part3范文-某人给你道歉的经历

　　题目：

　　1.Do people in your country like to say 'sorry'?

　　2.Why do some people refuse to say sorry to others?

　　3.Do you think people should apologize for anything wrong they do?

　　4.On what situations do people usually apologize to others?

　　范文：

　　1.Do people in your country like to say 'sorry'?

　　It varies from age to age. For older generations, no, but for the young, yes. According to my observations, to acknowledge your faults equates to a loss of face for older generations. For these older people, they prefer to apologize in a roundabout way, such as “Maybe I'm not that right.”, “Nobody is perfect.” and so on. They do so because they grew up in such a culture. For younger generations, they have various ways of saying sorry, but the most direct is to say “Excuse me, I'm sorry”, ”I beg your pardon” and so on. In my experience, it might have more to do with personality than culture.

　　2.Why do some people refuse to say sorry to others?

　　There are different interpretations on such behavior, but as far as I'm concerned, the most obvious one has something to do with the particular relationship between people and what may have happened. Some people may have felt betrayed or ashamed after giving an apology, or giving an apology that they shouldn't have, or apologizing to someone who didn't deserve it. It could also be that the person themselves refuses to apologize because they haven't forgiven themselves yet. In general, there are so many variables that affect a person's view on apologizing, but I believe that refusing to apologize is better than apologizing insincerely.

　　3.Do you think people should apologize for anything wrong they do?

　　If it's not an intentional mistake and if you value your relationship more than your ego, sure. Saying sorry won't make you weak in any way. It will in fact elevate you in the eyes of your partner, and it's also an easy and efficient way to save a relationship. I believe we should apologize face to face as it's more interactive and persuasive. After all, you apologize to ask for a pardon, so it's necessary to make people believe that you genuinely feel bad inside for making a mistake.

　　4.On what situations do people usually apologize to others?

　　There are two occasions when we should say sorry. The first one is when you've done something wrong and it's hurt someone. Never hurting people always comes first. The second one is when you're not really wrong, but you care about the other person who has become upset in the argument. On such occasions, we should apologize to prevent the situation from getting any worse. By doing so, you can move on quickly and take away some of the pain caused by whatever you're sorry for. Not all of it, but some.

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